Sarma

Modeled after the traditional meyhanes of Turkey, the modern Mediterranean / middle eastern menu at Sarma is a large selection of small plates ( meze ). We had planned to dine here with my cousin Vinny (no, not Joe Pesci) and his wife who are visiting the area. A work commitment got in the way but we decided to keep the reservation and dined with the kids. We had a lovely evening, filled with the kind of joy a parent can only feel when all their babies are happy, healthy, and living life well. The significance of the octopus painted on the wall of their parking lot converted to outdoor dining never became apparent to me but made for a nice photo.

CCHS JV Soccer

In addition to teaching history at the Concord Middle School, Nicolai is the head coach of the Concord Carlisle High School Men’s JV Soccer Team. Their nascent season is off to a good start with an undefeated record of 3-0-1. Nico asked me to take a team photo and I was happy to oblige. He suggested we use a concrete wall as a background and I rather like that choice over the more common sea of green or soccer netting that is more often seen in such portraits.

20/80 Ball

In soccer, there is the concept of a 50/50 ball. It means that you and your opponent have an equal chance to gain control of a ball that lies halfway between you. Coaches implore players to win 50/50 balls. In my soccer game this morning, I chased down a less than perfect defensive pass to the keeper running at full throttle and threw myself into the path of his clearance kick. The ball hit me in the right hip at point-blank range and looped back over the goalie and into the net for our first goal in a very tight match. Our team manager described it as winning a 20/80 ball (an all but lost cause) and it was a nice way to notch my first goal of the season. During my next shift, I nearly scored on a header but a head-to-head collision with my defender left me with a minor concussion. In a departure from past behavior, I decided to sit out the rest of the game based on all I now understand of concussion protocol. We did not score again until the closing minutes for a 2-0 win. After a long recovery nap, I joined Jeanine and another couple for outdoor dining at the Revolution Hall in Lexington followed by ice cream at Bedford Farms.

45th MPHS Reunion

Standing: Vince Pagano, Andrew Chalachanis, John Isabella, Chuck Shannon, MaryAnn Lake Frame, Tim Frame, Doug Lupe, Frank Campo, Patty Bowers Knauf, Eric Beeche, Kim Teta, Cliff Pitt, Christine Dieshner Pagano, Pat Mahoney, Armand Tariello, Chuck Allen, Ron Maslanka, Chuck Ernest, Bill Carter, John LeoneCarl Calabria, Barbara Gaugher Kent.
Sitting: Maggie HallJoseph TestaMarie VanDenburgh FarinaGene Audi, Tom Metzold, Cathy Conway Keehu, Yolanda Ducos Roy, Darlene Donadio Muscanell, MaryAnn Lima Batty.

This evening, I attended the Mont Pleasant High School 45th anniversary reunion in Schenectady, NY. I drove out for the day with my high school wrestling partner and great friend, Tom Metzold. We left early enough to ensure we would arrive before closing at Civitello’s Spumoni Shop located in the Little Italy section of town. They make the best lemon ice I have ever had anywhere in the world and a visit to Schenectady in the summer is not complete without a visit to this lovely shop now celebrating 100 years in business. Our reunion was wonderful and I enjoyed seeing old friends again and learning more about classmates I did not know as well at the time. The only disappointing part of the evening was how poorly this group portrait turned out. I used an on-camera flash but must have had it adjusted incorrectly which led to this very grainy and under-exposed result. Even so, I am glad to have taken it so that it might become part of the historical record. Another such record was a school newspaper article written by Tom that someone brought to the reunion. It highlights our senior year wrestling season and reminded me of my long since forgotten undefeated 22-0 record.

Mont Pleasant

While growing up in Schenectady, NY, I attended Mont Pleasant High School. Uniquely, it offered a technical program sponsored by General Electric, the major employer in the area at the time. This track was designed to prepare students for careers in engineering and is the reason my parents enrolled me here. The school opened in 1931 as one of Schenectady’s two high schools. In 1992, the other high school, Linton High, merged with Mont Pleasant with Linton becoming Schenectady High and Mont Pleasant a middle school. My brother Mark, sister Alissa, and I attended Mont Pleasant while my sister Mayela, attended cross-town rival, Linton. Tomorrow, I am looking forward to a reunion of the Class of 1976.

Electrify America

Normally, I charge my electric car at home overnight. When I travel beyond its 200-mile range, I rely on a network of high-speed (150KW) chargers that are becoming increasingly available. Using such a charger, I can replenish 160 miles in 30 minutes. Still far less convenient for long-distance travel than a fossil-fuel-powered car, it is by no means a barrier to longer journeys.

Virtual Background

With a number of Zoom meetings coming up later this week and next, I decided it was time to update the virtual background that I have been using. While very nice as photographs go, my favorite landscape images with my talking head superimposed over them present an incongruous scene. I decided it was time to start using an indoor scene, ideally an office setting. I searched my photo archive and found this image I took of my home office when we lived in Indianapolis. Indeed, it presents a much more logical background and I think I will test it out for the next few weeks. Below are some of my other favorite backgrounds from my photo archive.

Babson World Globe

I made a short visit to the Olin campus today to bring Maya some screws for her roommate. Yes, you read that correctly. Apparently, they are needed to assemble a bookshelf. Why they were left at our house, I do not know. The real point here is that it does not take much to motivate me to visit Maya. After learning as much as she could share about her senior project (it is subject to a non-disclosure agreement with the outside company sponsor) and getting an update on the various companies trying to recruit her, I decided to return home by way of a shortcut through Babson College. Olin and Babson share a campus. On the way out, I came upon the recently restored Babson World Globe which has been relocated to a new setting in Kerry Murphy Healey Park. College founder Roger Babson dreamed up the idea of building the Globe in 1947 as a way to promote interest in world affairs. At 25 tons and 28 feet wide it was completed in 1955 and was the world’s largest rotating earth-ball of its day. It was covered with porcelain-baked steel tiles that recreated the continents and oceans. They fell off in 1984 and for the next nine years, the World looked like a big, rusted ball. A restored version was dedicated in 1993 and it lasted for a quarter of a century before it was once again in need of rejuvenation. This latest version once again rotates and I think the new setting is quite fitting.

Early Color

I was back in the lineup for my soccer team this morning and we managed a strong 6-0 victory over a new team to the league from Danvers. The score was 1-0 at the break but we wore them down in the second half even though they had more subs. Later in the day, I ventured out to enjoy the spectacular weather and found some early fall color in the field behind our last home.

Carson Beach

After many days of rainy weather, Jeanine and I took advantage of a perfect September day to visit Carson Beach, just south of Boston. We enjoyed a leisurely stroll and eventually made our way north to Pleasure Bay where we walked out to Head Island. Kiteboarding and windsurfing are popular here due to the consistent wind and protected bay. It has been a good 40 years since I learned to windsurf while getting my master’s degree in California. If not for the cold water temperature, I might be tempted to see if I am still up to the challenge. More my speed these days is beach volleyball but even that seemed like a risky proposition given I am back on the roster for a soccer game tomorrow morning.

Black-eyed Susan

As fall approaches, I find myself increasingly drawn to the outdoors. Autumn has always been my favorite season and I am looking forward to it even more than usual this year. First because of the impact the pandemic has had and second because my semi-retired schedule gives me more flexibility to enjoy it. Flowers like the black-eyed Susan come into their own at this time of year and I really liked this grouping with a little purple in the background.

Swollen Sudbury

Rain has been relentless for the last few days and the Sudbury River is well outside its banks as seen in the photo. I have kept close track of how high it is relative to the basement of our house. We still have a 5-foot margin but we also know that the house has flooded twice in seven decades and are trying to factor that into our design.

House Gif

Today, I constructed a physical model of our new house design from foam core and cardboard. I placed it on top of an extended tripod so I could look at it from a ground-level perspective without bending over and easily rotate it to any angle. Having taken things this far, I decided to create a GIF. There are still some minor details that do not match the current plan and many of what appear to be windows are actually solid panels. Still, the model provides a good overall understanding of the structure provided you can visualize the grading.

Veggie Farewell

Jeanine finished writing and editing her memoir cookbook some time ago but the process of layout and formatting has been fraught with delays. By my count, she is working with her third designer, each prior one having failed to complete the project for one reason or another. I am the in-house food photographer and was happy to create what I expect will be the last image for the book. With most of my photography studio in storage, I did the best I could with available light and an on-camera flash. Not my best work, but the client seemed happy. Fittingly, Jeanine prepared the pictured rainbow salad for her writer’s group farewell luncheon. She joined the “chapter” (my name for a group of writers) shortly after we moved to Concord and they have been a source of shared passion, support, candid feedback, and professional guidance.

On the Water

Jeanine took the kayak that Maya built out for a quick paddle down to Fairhaven Bay this morning. Our neighbors have a nicely sloped area from which to launch and have kindly given us permission to use it. Our river frontage is on a fairly steep incline which does not really lend itself to a graceful put-in point. The Conantum community in which we live has a shared dock and kayak storage area that is a very short walk from the house. Once we have settled in, I suspect we will take advantage of this option because it offers a totally dry entry and exit.

Kitchen Design

Now that plans for the overall house are essentially done, I have turned my attention to a more detailed model of the kitchen. Jeanine and I both like natural bamboo for the cabinetry and have settled on basic appliance sizes; 42″ refrigerator freezer, 30″ double oven (steam over convection), 36″ induction cooktop with downdraft vent. Countertop color, lighting fixtures, and hardware are still open, as is the style of the sink. Not shown is the walk-in pantry to the left of the refrigerator. In addition to the CAD model, I have created a spreadsheet detailing the contents of each drawer, cabinet, and shelf to ensure we do not overlook anything in the design. The kitchen area is ~230 sqft. and the pantry is 55 sqft. Smaller in comparison to our previous kitchens, it feels perfectly scaled for our retirement years.

Cory

For the past week, this cormorant has been sharing a branch with Herman, the blue heron who fishes from it almost every morning. It is nice to see two different species coexisting peacefully. This is in sharp contrast to the hummingbirds which visit our feeder. They invariably compete to the bitter end until one is driven off even though the feeder can accommodate several diners. Regular visitors to our home get names. The cormorant will be called Cory.

Leaf top Showdown

Just for fun, see if you can correctly guess the outcome of this leaf top encounter. The answer will be at the bottom of this entry and will require some decoding.

  • Spider and ant peacefully share the leaf
  • Spider attacks and eats ant
  • Ant is the first soldier of a trailing army that engulfs the spider

.tcerroc si rewsna tsrif ehT

Registry of Deeds

It has been over a month since we received approval from the Concord Natural Resource Commission to proceed with our new home building project. Per requirements, I mailed the Order of Conditions we received to the Middlesex Registry of Deeds for recording. In addition to the filing fee, I included a self-addressed, postage pre-paid envelope for them to return a certified copy. Having yet to receive it, I spent several hours tracking down the problem and driving into Cambridge to obtain a copy. Nothing I enjoy more than dealing with Massachusetts state bureaucracy. While I was at it, I contacted Concord Municipal Light Plant to see if they would come and retrieve a utility pole that has been lying next to our driveway since we moved in. Prior dealings with the CMLP have always been great so I am optimistic that this will get resolved quickly.

Approaching A Final Design

Design for our new home is approaching completion. We incorporated a few minor changes based on the homes we visited last weekend. Windows, 63 of them, feature prominently allowing us to enjoy views of the lovely Sudbury River. The above grade finished space will be 3,000 sqft and the basement will add another 1,900 sqft. We will have an open floor plan living area, dining area, and kitchen with walk-in pantry and media enclave, two offices, three dedicated bedrooms, three and a half bathrooms, an aviary, exercise room, laundry, woodshop, and photo studio. Next on the schedule, our architect will complete construction drawings while we line up a builder. We are still probably a year away from completion, but it is exciting to have reached this milestone.

Waitsfield Farmers Market

Over the weekend, we visited the Waitsfield Farmers Market in search of breakfast. After quickly satisfying that objective, we leisurely visited many of the booths. Jeanine scored some local honey and I several colorful photos. As luck would have it, we ran into a former neighbor from Concord who now has a home in the area. It seems like many of our friends have gravitated to this picturesque valley at the base of Sugarbush Mountain.

Fall Opener

My soccer team’s fall season kicked off this morning. We played a very chippy team from Peabody on an incredibly slow grass field. Despite controlling possession for 80% of the first half, we were not able to score until the second half when we did so twice for the 2-0 win. I took the team photo but did not play. Having missed practice last week, I was relegated to standby status for today’s game. Rest assured, I will not be missing any more practices this season.

At noon, the entire family got together for lunch at Kyle’s place. I arrived early to help him with planning for a basement renovation project he is undertaking. I captured measurements to create an as-built drawing of the space. Later in the evening, I put together a preliminary concept for Kyle’s review.

Mad River Valley

Two of Vermont’s most charming waterfalls share the same name. There is Moss Glen Falls of Stowe, and there is Moss Glen Falls of Granville, pictured above. Located a short distance from where we spent the evening, Moss Glen Falls is a lovely, 25-foot wide, fan-shaped waterfall with a roughly 30-foot drop and easily accessed from RT 100. Other interesting sightings during our afternoon tour of the Mad River Valley included a sandpiper, glider, and daredevils.

Weekend Getaway

Jeanine and I drove to Montpellier, Vermont this afternoon for a short weekend getaway. After a brief stop to tour the lovely state capitol, we met up with my former boss, Duncan, his wife Joy, and a small group of their friends at the Barr Hill distillery and craft cocktail bar. Afterwards, we retreated to Duncan’s mountainside home in Warren, situated on 80+ acres with a commanding view of Sugarbush Mountain. There, we spent the night and enjoyed more great food and conversation.

Faroese Architecture

My initial posts from my recent visit to the Faroe Islands were entirely focused on the natural beauty of the landscapes. Today, I am sharing photos that celebrate the architecture. Every village, no matter the size, features a modest but lovely church. Interestingly, the other standard fixture, although less photogenic, is a soccer pitch. Every child here plays football and the nation has the highest ratio of soccer coaches to players in the world. Below is a typical village, invariably located on the water where you will either find a fleet of small fishing boats and/or facilities for the building and launching of giant circular pens used for farming salmon.

The capital of Tórshavn is quite modern but also has a well preserved and delightfully charming “Old Town”. Although the weather in the Faroe Islands (rains 2 out of every 3 days) will not be to everyone’s taste, this self-governing nation under the external sovereignty of the Kingdom of Denmark, has one of the highest GDPs per capita and lowest crime rates (I did not see a single police officer during my entire stay) in the world.

Liberated Beetle

On the day we moved into our new house some 9 months ago, I noticed this very large beetle trapped between sliding panes of glass in what is now our combined office and media room. It appeared to have been dead for some time. My initial attempts to extract it were unsuccessful. Today, I made a much more determined effort and was able to free it without damage. It is quite large, measuring 1.5 inches from stem to stern or 2 inches if you include the legs. It is quite an impressive creature and I am sorry we did not meet under better circumstances.

New Snowblower

Why on Earth would someone buy a snowblower in the middle of August. Well, you would do so if the model you are interested in has been sold out for the past 9 months. When we moved to our new house, I sold all of my gas powered outdoor equipment including my huge tracked Honda snowblower. In my opionion, this 2-stage Ego model is the first electric snowblower that has any chance of standing up to a New England winter. Our new driveway is relatively flat but considerably longer than our last one. I am hoping that two sets of batteries will be adequate to handle most snow events. Time will tell but having made the expenditure, it is a virtual guarantee that we will have an unusually mild winter.

Record Kidney Stone

A little over a week ago, on the day before my soccer tournament in Copenhagen, I passed my largest kidney stone to date. It measured 6.5mm x 4.0mm and is pictured above on the logo of my laptop computer. I strongly suspect that this stone passed from my kidney to bladder several months ago when I was experiencing very severe pain. I believe that the 70 miles of hiking I did over the prior week probably got it started on the last leg of the journey which proved relatively painless. I apologize to followers of this blog for the inclusion of such entries which I suspect are of little interest and/or gross. I do so because the blog has become very valuable to me as an indexed and searchable journal which makes it easy to keep track of such events which is helpful when doctors inquire about medical history.

Rivian Class of 2021

Maya is back from Normal, IL where she spent the summer as an intern working for Rivian, the electric vehicle maker. Pictured above with her teammates, she was the program manager for the production of the new Amazon delivery van. Her team shipped the first four units during the last days of her internship, an accomplishment that had her working 10-12 hours a day. Amazon has contracted Rivian to produce 100,000 electric delivery vans by 2030, with the first 10,000 hitting the road by the end of 2022. This was a major milestone for the company and her performance over the summer earned her a job offer. They would like to hire her now on a part-time basis until she graduates next spring and then transition her to full-time. Rivian is an excellent company that will be at the very top of Maya’s list of potential employers. The only downside is that the company is headquartered in California where she would have to relocate. She joined her siblings and college roommate for brunch at our house where we reconnected after her summer absence. Nicolai starts teaching history at the Concord Middle School a week from Monday and Kyle starts a remote Master’s Degree program with Georgia Tech tomorrow.

Headshot for a Friend

A close friend of ours was in need of a headshot for work. I was happy to help out. 90% of my studio equipment is in storage and I had to make do with a pair of small strobes plus Jeanine holding a white reflector in just the right spot. I like making portraits of people I know. They are more at ease and I know when I have captured their essence.

Cozy Cat

This evening we enjoyed a delightful get-together at the lovely home of friends from our community. Even though she has grown allergic to them, Jeanine adores cats. She was very careful not to touch the pair that lived in the house. They immediately recognized her as a cat person and came over to visit and curl up beside her. I am more of a dog person which explains why they ignored me and why the older Siamese gave me the evil eye while I was taking this photo.

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