This is the last photo I took of Tony.

In Old Lyme, I joined family and friends to celebrate the life of my cousin Tony Gesky who passed away recently. Tony was remembered for his generosity, joie de vivre, optimism, and determination. The service was beautiful and highlighted for me by the many rememberances offered. The picture they painted was of a life well lived and of a gentle giant who touched the lives of everyone he met.
Today is both my 49th birthday and the 20th anniversary of the formation of Truevision (the company I co-founded in my twenties with 6 others from Bell Labs). My travel to Indianapolis was to attend a reunion of former employess. The gathering was fantastic and it was great getting caught up with everyone. In retrospect, virtually everyone agreed that Truevision was the best company they had ever worked for and all have gone on to achieve great things. Click on the photo of Cathleen and I to see all the photos from the event.
This morning my team was in action against one of the better teams in our division. We won a hard fought but decisive 2-0 victory. I am still sidelined with my injured knee which is feeling less and less likely to be healed in time to salvage any part of the season. I photographed the game and took the obligatory annual team photo.
How many defenders does it take to cover Nicolai. Apparently the answer is four and even that many was not enough to prevent Nico from scoring a really beautiful goal this morning. Jeanine is away for the weekend with friends on Martha’s Vineyard while I hold down the fort and run the weekend soccer taxi service.
Although my knee recovered sufficiently to climb Kilimanjaro, it is still not strong enough to play soccer. Sunday mornings in the fall and spring are when I escape to enjoy a couple of hours of competition and camaraderie. This morning the air was crisp with the anticipation of fall and it felt very strange to be missing my game. On the positive side, it did afford me the opportunity to attend church with the family and later in the afternoon, Jeanine guided me on a bike ride through the hidden paths of Concord. It never ceases to amaze me how many secret places there are in our town and that Jeanine seems to know them all. We finish our ride at the high school where Maya is attending a soccer clinic.
To all my Friends and Family:
Thank you all so much for the financial and moral support of my climb. I couldn’t have done it without you. When I was so tired and wanted to stop and give up, the thought of everyone that was supporting me kept my foot going. I thought about everyone who was supporting me the whole way up, every step that I took and especially on the last day when it was cold and dark and I was tired and in pain.I would think, just one more step, over and over and the faces of the people who were thinking of me would flash in and out of my mind and for this I thank you, because without you I couldn’t have made it! I am very grateful for all of the donations to the Free Wheelchair Mission. Now we are nearly up to $50,000 and may be starting a third container. Thank you again for everything.
Sincerely,
Nicolai
These certificates will always testify to more than just climbing a mountain. They will remind us of a time when father and son shut out the rest of the world, focused on accomplishing something wonderful, and learning about ourselves and each other. For Nicolai, that limitations of the body can be overcome with a courageous heart and determination of steel. That his bravery could be translated into an act of charity that will forever positively change the lives of thousands of people less fortunate than he. For Carl, an opportunity for the second time in his life to watch a son taking the first steps into manhood.