Today I spent the bulk of the day layed up with an intestinal flu or food poisoning but did get outsdie for a brief tour of my mother’s Japanese style gardens. Over the years, my siblings and I have encouraged our parents to consider moving to a smaller more practical home. What do two eighty somethings need with an 8 bedroom, 3 story home after all?. To wander through the gardens, decades in the making, is to understand but one component of their reluctance to leave.