With the kids otherwise occupied, Jeanine and I did some shopping at REI (probably my favorite place to spend money, other than a good camera store) followed by a late dinner at the John Harvard’s Brewery and Ale House. Probably best known for their beverages, none of which I imbibe, we found the food to be quite good as well. Jeanine and I shared our meals and an hour of uninterrupted pleasure in each other’s company absent the distractions of our normal life.
Monthly Archives: November 2012
Dramatic Pirates
Maya and her friends Sarinnagh and Fiona performed an excerpt from the Pirates of the Caribbean during the winter recital for her drama class. The girls delivered their lines flawlessly, with great projection and dramatic flare. I videotaped the performance for the benefit of Jeanine who was obligated to attend a Board meeting for our home owner’s association.
Body Map
Nicolai shared his life-size, abstract body map with the family this evening. He completed this self-portrait for his Rivers and Revolutions class, an avant-garde program that has had a profound effect on him, impacting his perspectives on both college and career. Students started by tracing their outline and adding the outline of a loved one which they then embellished with iconography of personal significance. The photo suffers from excessive glare and does not do the original justice.
My indoor soccer season started this evening and with my various injuries healed I was feeling unstoppable and was able to find the back of the net three times. We led for the entire match but had to settle for a 4-4 tie as our endurance waned in the closing minutes. We had one sub to their five which made all the difference.
Holiday Card
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Busted
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Patagonia Prep
I spent the bulk of the day making preparations for my up coming adventure to Patagonia with Kyle. I spent hours agonizing over which cameras, lenses and tripod to bring. We will be trekking in excess of 10 miles every day so weight is an important consideration . My photography equipment is hovering at around 12 pounds which I would like to trim to 10. sildenafil generic sale Most of these chemical compounds include dopamine together with norepinephrine. levitra 20 mg http://www.heritageihc.com/staff What the tablets offers an ED affected person is suffering from erectile dysfunction. Similarly, self-help books purchase cheap cialis aimed at improving sexual performance and dealing with the issue of male impotence. It raises mood and sildenafil online india improves sensation. To put this in context and to illustrate my priorities; my day pack, tent, sleep bag, sleeping mat, pillow, and all my clothing for 12 days (less boots) weighs less than 10 pounds. I decided it would be easier to lose a couple of pounds between now and our departure in 2 weeks than to give up any gear. With that in mind I took a 4.5 mile walk with my loaded day pack and camera gear. Along the way I found this nice scene which I must remember to photograph again in spring and fall.
Brother & Sister
Although I have thousands of pictures of each child, I have almost none of them interacting in pairs. The downtime in Minnesota has afforded me a great opportunity to catch them enjoying each other’s company. Kyle will fly back to California tomorrow while the rest of us return to Boston this evening.
Family Portraits
Despite having taken more than 10,000 photos this year I do not have a single family portrait to use for this year’s holiday card. Frigid temperatures and snow, therefore, did not stand in the way of several outdoor family portraits which included this grouping of the cousins. Maya has started to learn how to properly use my DSLR (thoughtful control of aperture, shutter speed and exposure compensation) and produced a rather nice portrait of me which I have paired here with one of my beautiful bride. The balance of the day included various activities many of which featured me in service as a horse being ridden by Rose and Sophia. Mark prepared a magnificent prime rib dinner which was followed by an early celebration for my sister Alissa’s 50th birthday (Dec. 2).
Minnesota Thanksgiving Reunion
It has been 19 years since my family last reunited for Thanksgiving in Minnesota where my brother Mark and his family reside. We missed my sister Mayela and her husband Stephen who were not able to make the trip from North Carolina. Joining us for the gathering was Jeff, Rory’s tennis coach, who would have otherwise celebrated the holiday alone. To know my brother is to understand that the Thanksgiving meal would be something to remember for years to come. The feast lived up to our highest expectations and then some. Most enjoyable for me was watching the 9 cousins interacting. The boys all look like men now and the girls are all going to break hearts. Here are a few portraits of the young beauties.
Dinner was preceded by an assortment of cheese, sopressata, home made pate and pesto, with freshly baked bread. The 22 pound turkey just barely fit in the oven with wings just touching the sides. Mark insisted it rest for 40 minutes before serving. While this no doubt produced a more succulent result, it caused near mutiny in the kitchen as the aroma tortured us with the promise of what was to come.
To The Wind
Maya had her hair done today. I am not sure exactly what the process entails but I believe at some point her head is placed inside a vice. I like the new look and enticed Maya to sit for me. She got the idea to throw her hair about and I have 2 dozen photos, each better than the last. We both had a lot of fun and enjoyed reviewing the results.
Fit & Trim
It has been a few days since Kyle returned home from college and I have been delinquent in posting a photo of him. He reports that he is enjoying his classes and doing well scholastically. His various injuries have healed to the point where he is running and lifting regularly. He looks very trim and healthy again which is helping to motivate me to get back in the gym where I could stand to shed more than a few pounds. His sleeping schedule is still quite shifted from ours, a combination of the three hour time zone difference and the three hour college lifestyle difference. Last night I tried to repair his computer which is no longer functioning after he attempted to water it (more beneficial for plant life, as a future reference) and he is experiencing withdrawal symptoms from Facebook. Fortunately, he did not water his phone which is now his only lifeline into his social network.
Coccinellidae
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Project Day
I generally wake up every day at 5AM so leaving the house at that hour to retrieve Kyle from the airport was perfect. He spent a good portion of the remainder of the day making up for the sleep he lost on the red-eye from California. Running and lifting have left him fit and trim and ostensibly rehabilitated from his various muscle injuries.
I spent the bulk of the day completing a project to refit the house with LED light bulbs. This latest generation of lighting technology consumes 1/5 of the energy of conventional incandescent bulbs of the same brightness, start instantly, have a pleasing color temperature and are advertised to last for more than twenty years. The downside is that they cost more than $10 a pop and with close to 100 fixtures and lamps throughout the house it was quite an expensive undertaking. Reaching the nine fixtures in our vaulted master bedroom ceiling required me to set up a crude scaffolding which was the most time consuming part of the project.
After a delicious welcome home Sunday dinner, Jeanine took Kyle and visiting cousin Johnnie to see the new Lincoln movie. I spent the evening assisting Maya in my wood shop. She is constructing a miniature bookshop from plywood for her French class. Here she is seen laying out the patterns to be cut for the door and windows. Under my supervision, she used the table saw for the first time. It is the most daunting of wood-cutting tools and her first attempt resulted in a kickback. Fortunately, she was not hurt at all and the incident left her with profound respect for the power of this tool.
Final Interview
Nicolai gave what is likely to be his last interview regarding the amazing goal he scored this season and the video of it which went viral. The segment will air next April in the United Kingdom on a television show produced by October Films. His publicity manager (yours truly) was able to negotiate a $500 appearance fee for his efforts. I think we are all ready to put this chapter of Nico’s fame behind us now. One can only imagine what he will do next.
Goodbye Gathering
This evening after work I joined several colleagues at Waxy O’Connor’s Irish Pub to bid farewell to a pair of long time iRobot employees who are leaving the company. The setting did not afford an opportunity to make any speeches but I did have an opportunity to personally thank both guys for their fine work at the company and to wish them well in the future.
With the winter months approaching I have been giving serious thought to my next solo trekking adventure. The Patagonia region of Argentina and Chile has long been on my bucket list. This morning, Jeanine suggested I invite Kyle to join me. I loved the idea but didn’t expect him to want to spend 2 weeks of his winter break climbing through the Andes with his father. To my great surprise and delight, he said yes. It has been 7 years since Kyle and I traveled to Belize for his Coming of Age Adventure and I am really looking forward to adding another chapter to our story. Perhaps this will mark the beginning of a new tradition.
Barberism
From the time they were mere toddlers, I have cut the hair of my boys. Motivated initially by a desire to save money, I long ago came to enjoy the father-son intimacy it offered. I still have fond memories of my mother cutting my hair as a child. During their early teen years each haircut would end with a tirade about my total incompetence as a barber if even 4 or 5 hairs were cut too short. Now, I am more likely to be asked to make another pass because I have not cut the hair short enough. Despite my purported total lack of ability, I am pleased that my only two clients have remained with me all these years and look forward to cutting their hair for years to come.
Noteworthy Nomination
We just learned that Nicolai has been nominated as one of four finalist for Disabled Athlete of the Year by U.S. Soccer. You can vote for Nico at this Facebook page (http://www.facebook.com/officialussoccer/app_347627388581014). Be careful to select the correct button (upper left corner relative to Nico’s photo)
Voting ends on Friday, so there is little time to get the word out. Online voting counts for 50% of the total votes. The other 50% will be cast by members of the national media and U.S. Soccer representatives. Being nominated is a great honor for Nicolai but winning will be a function of getting out the vote. And just when you thought the election was behind us 🙂
Sold
There are times as a parent when you feel like strangling a child. Fortunately for Kyle, he has 3000 miles working in his favor in this circumstance. Before returning to college this fall, he decided to sell his Ford F150 truck and the box trailer he purchased for his landscaping business. Procrastinating until the last week of his vacation, the truck and trailer remained unsold, the former parked in our driveway and the latter stored miles away on a friend’s horse farm. Unable to control her motherly instincts, Jeanine volunteered to assist Kyle with the sale. I made it clear that I wanted no part of the endeavor. After numerous flakes and no-shows responded to the Craig’s List advertisement, Jeanine was contacted by a hot prospect who was in dire need of a trailer and wanted to drive up from Brockton to check it and the truck out. The buyer arrived with his brother at 10 PM. This is generally the hour at which I begin looking forward to a good night’s sleep rather than the beginning of a 2 1/2 hour negotiation.
All-in-all not my idea of late-night fun on the evening before I am scheduled to appear before the Board of Directors. In addition to a loving welcome, delicious food, and the comfort of his old room, Kyle can look forward to a significant “make good” assignment when he returns from California this Sunday for the Thanksgiving break.
Road’s End
Nicolai is now a veteran of the CCHS Varsity Soccer team whose season came to an end this evening with a loss to North Andover in the state cup quarter-finals contested at Lynn’s Manning Field. The team amassed an impressive 14-3-2 record and Nicolai became the first one-legged soccer player to score a goal in varsity high school competition. With his “shot seen round the world” Nicolai earned the respect of soccer players from every corner of the globe and will have a fond memory to look back upon for the rest of his life. Of the team’s 19 games this season, I attended 18 and photographed 17. I estimate I took roughly 8000 pictures and posted some 1500 which can be seen HERE. While I would have liked to have seen the boys make it to the finals, my camera is happy for the rest.
Autumn’s End
Although my soccer season has ended, most members of my team continue to knock the ball around on Sunday mornings. I played for an hour before tweaking my right calf muscle and deciding it was time to take a break. I used the balance of the day to do a little painting around the house and to continue with the massive task of organizing my digital photo collection (tagging with metadata, ranking, editing). You might want to understand what the above would mean for online prescriptions for cialis you? The answer is pretty simple. Kamagra UK is a generic version of cialis price and other ED drugs work from erection system. Regrettably, most of these drafts will frequently respitecaresa.org cheapest cialis cross proper throughout ones insulation. Lifestyle factors such as exposure to environmental pollutants and pesticides may be another cialis low cost cause and so can substance abuse, like taking drugs, alcohol, steroids and smoking. Applying myself to the task for an hour a day should allow me to complete the project in about half a year. Even though most of the leaves are down now, there are still pretty landscapes to be found in the area.
3 To Go
Nicolai saw action today against Pentucket in the state championship tournament. The 4-0 victory advanced CCHS to the round of eight, securing the third of six matches needed to win the state title. Nico played for twenty minutes and managed a powerful shot on goal which sailed just over the bar. Meanwhile, Jeanine is having a great time in NYC. She visited Rockefeller Center, had lunch at a French Provencal restaurant, enjoyed a Manhattan at a famous NY bar, and took in Cougars The Musical and Mama Mia. On the home front, my brother Mark and his son Mario are here visiting Northeastern University. The new Bond film proved to be the perfect catalyst for a boy’s night out which ended with a couple of pints of ice cream back at the ranch.
Super Mario
My nephew Mario arrived today from his home in Minnesota. He will be visiting Northeastern University tomorrow and we have the benefit of his company for a couple of days. Anticipating his arrival, Jeanine prepared enough baked ziti to feed a normal family for a week. I predict it will be gone before 24 hours have passed given that we will also be joined by my nephew Johnie and my brother Mark who is flying in later this evening. The three cousins can pack away more food than any three humans I know. How they remain skinny as rails is a mystery to me.
First Snow
The Nor’easter that moved up the Eastern seaboard petered out before hitting Concord but did manage to deliver the first snowfall of the season. The precipitation turned from snow to rain by mid-morning and our white blanket was gone by late afternoon.
NYC Bound
Jeanine and Maya will be traveling to NYC this weekend to visit with friends. Maya will be attending the birthday party of her friend Izzy, who she met at Farm & Wilderness Camp. Jeanine will connect with Monica Frost, a close friend from Indianapolis, who is flying in to join her. The adults plan to take in Cougar The Musical while the girls will see Wicked. Initially, it appeared that Hurricane Sandy would disrupt this long-planned excursion. Friends in the city, however, indicate that life is returning to normal and the best way to help with the recovery is to keep the tourism dollars flowing.
Mother and daughter did a little apparel shopping in preparation for their travels and Maya was all too happy to model her new outfit for me.
Product Planning
I love voting in Concord. The process here is intimate. At the same time, it is a community event during which you are likely to meet neighbors and friends. I am pleased to report that all but one of my votes (the Death with Dignity ballot question) carried the day. Jeanine and I voted together which was a very nice way to start the morning. I spent the balance of the day offsite at the Babson Executive Conference Center with my boss and a number of colleagues working on product road maps. The session ended shortly after 5pm allowing me just enough time to make the one hour drive to Danvers where Nico’s soccer team was competing in the second round of the state title tournament. CCHS emerged victorious by a margin of 5-3. Temperatures hovered at the freezing mark and probably contributed to the high scoring (goalie’s hands don’t work as well when numb).
Kyle Updates
Kyle sent me a number of photos from California and a nice note with an update on his extracurricular activities, excerpts of which I am including below.
I have become more active in a group on campus called In To The Wild. I took a trip to a beach in Santa Cruz the second weekend back to school, and last weekend we traveled to San Francisco Bay and sailed a catamaran under the Golden Gate Bridge. I got an up close look at Alcatraz. I am planning on going on a hiking trip this weekend and hopefully every weekend they offer activities. I am also attending a viewing session of this indie documentary called The First 70 which documents California’s attempt to close down the first 70 national parks in an attempt to reduce the deficit.
I joined the boxing club today with my friend Athan. I just turned in the forms last night and will be traveling to a gym in Sunnyvale tonight to start training. College boxing has relatively well padded gloves, as well as padded head gear. I haven’t decided whether I plan on competing or not, but for now I will just be training with the team to get in better shape. I am very near my peak soccer/ wrestling shape. My bench press has nearly reached my old weight and reps, I am down to weighing 142 lbs (my wrestling weight) and I run regularly. Last weekend I went for a 10.5 mile run and plan on running a school-sponsored 5k this Saturday. The stretching has really helped, and I have learned to work out regardless of minor injuries. I am just more careful not to over exert my injured muscles.
Redemption
While Jeanine was in Burlington I spent some time completing projects around the house. For the master bathroom, I built a wood frame to surround the mirror, added new light fixtures, and hung various artwork. For the laundry room, I built a two-level, ten foot long shelf above the washer, dryer and laundry sink area. I tend to spend more time on indoor projects as the winter months approach.
My outdoor soccer season concluded today on a redemptive note. We won our first game of the season beating Canton, the divisional champions. I created several scoring opportunities, forced a number of turnovers, and left the field very satisfied with my play and totally spent. Our record for the season was 1-5-4. An optimist would conclude we only lost half of our games and beat the top-finishing team in head-to-head play. The realist would observe we failed to win 90% of our games, resulting in relegation to Division 2 next season. As for me, I am happy with any season that ends with my ability to walk unimpaired.
Yesterday while at Maya’s game, I was approached by a parent from the opposing team. She asked if I would be posting the images. I explained that I was not a professional and was only taking pictures of Maya. She gave me her e-mail address and asked if I would send her any photos that happened to include her daughter, the goalie, in the same frame. I got the sense that this woman probably had few, if any, pictures of her daughter in an athletic setting and decided to shoot a small series which I sent to her yesterday. Today, I received a very nice thank you note which ended in the following quotation and left me very moved.
The man said ”Don’t you realize that there are miles and miles of beach, with starfish all along it? There’s too many, you can’t possibly make a difference!” The young girl bent down and picked up another starfish and threw it into the sea and said…. “made a difference to that one”
Busy Maya
Jeanine is spending a writer’s weekend in Burlington, VT with her sister Susan. Meanwhile, I am charged with the care of the dog and Maya. Nicolai, for all intents and purposes, is self-sufficient these days. Maya’s schedule: 8:30 am outdoor soccer match in Natick, 11:30 am ballet class in Concord, 2:15 pm dance recital rehearsal, 4:10 pm indoor soccer game in Acton, 5:10 attend birthday party until 9 pm. I am tired just typing it out. Maya is planning to spend next weekend in NYC making this her last outdoor game of the season. She finished in fine form.
Carbon Failure
Until today, the only components of his crutches that Nicolai has failed to break were the carbon fiber tubes. Now he can add that to his list. His soccer team came from a 0-2 deficit against Belmont, in the opening round of the DCL championships, to win 3-2 with a golden goal in overtime. In the exuberance of the ensuing celebration he collided with a teammate who fell on the crutch and snapped the carbon fiber tube just below the junction with the handle/cuff assembly. I was able to cut off the damaged portion and extend the foot adjustment to compensate for the shorter tube. Good as new.
Cabbage White
The patio off iRobot’s in-facility cafe was empty when I decided to enjoy my lunch, a hot cup of beef stew, outdoors. Temperatures have dropped sufficiently to keep most employees inside the cafeteria. It did not take long, with no one to talk to, before I noticed the movement of several butterflies among the bushes. This Cabbage White rested long enough for me to get a closeup.