On the way home from work I stopped by the hospital to pick up the MRI study (comes on a CD) of my right shoulder. I have an appointment tomorrow with an orthopedist to determine the next steps. It has been almost a year since I injured myself playing goalie and my shoulder shows no signs of improvement. I launched the viewer program and read the radiologist’s notes which referenced the image above. The dark area between the yellow crosshairs is not supposed to be there.
On a more positive note I played my first indoor soccer of the winter season this evening after giving my body several months to heal from the various injuries sustained during the fall season. I scored 3 goals and an assist to help my team win by a margin of 7-4.
Maya has been playing indoor soccer this winter and I had a chance to watch her compete this evening. After beating her defender, she drills a shot on goal but it is just wide. I pass the facility on my commute so it has never been so convenient to see her play.
Maya performed in concert this evening playing alto sax and also helping to introduce one of the pieces to the capacity crowd. Two prior attempts to hold the winter concert were thwarted by snow cancellations. The third time was the charm and I must say that this group of sixth graders sounded quite musical.
I was in the mood to organize today and spent several hours on the south wall of my workshop. I enjoy having my tools close at hand and organized by function. This little grouping is for measurement, layout, and cutting. When I constructed my shop I used plywood for the walls specifically so I could easily affix all manner of holders, fixtures, and screws.
We are expecting rain today which will be absorbed like a sponge by the two feet of snow on most roofs. The combined weight of the snow and rain creates a serious risk of collapse. Workers at the farm across the street spent the better part of the day clearing their horse stable roof.
Jeanine is hosting a dinner for the women of her book group. Maya has been “banished” to the basement and I to my study. Occasionally I venture out for morsels of food in between courses. It has been a very hectic week at work but also extremely productive and I am looking forward to relaxing this weekend.
Last night I experienced a weather phenomenon I have never encountered in my entire life. This very poor photograph of the hood of my SUV shows what I can only describe as miniature-sized snowballs which were raining down at a furious pace. These mini-snowballs are not to be confused with hail which I have seen before. Needless to say, the resulting sea of marble-sized snowballs did not enhance driving conditions.
Some types of photography take more practice than others to perfect. Extreme close-up (macro) photography is very challenging because the depth of field (area that is in focus) is razor-thin. Without a tripod and head capable of very flexible positioning it is hard to get a decent shot. Given the dismal weather, I put in a few hours this evening optimizing my gear so that it will be ready for the field when spring rolls around and the world of nature explodes with amazingly beautiful tiny creatures and plants.
So it has been snowing all day and school has already been canceled for tomorrow. In the mind of a teenager, this is a good reason to host a party. Never mind that a dozen parents need to drive their kids here and back. As Nico’s friends arrived, I was experimenting with one of the products that my team developed at iRobot. The Scooba 230 is designed for use on the floor but in theory, there is no reason why it can’t work on countertops. The design incorporates a cliff sensor which prevents it from going over the edge of our kitchen island. Naturally, Jeanine is watching it like a hawk to see if it will get a single stain which has escaped her own cleaning efforts. Several of Nico’s guests were enthralled with this little robot and watched it for quite some time before joining the party underway in the basement.
I spent 15 hours at work today trying to make progress on a brief I am preparing for the Board of Directors. When I arrived home after 11 pm I had no photo for the day and decided to search for an early photo of Kyle with his friends, David and Brian (his California hosts last weekend). I was unable to locate one of the three of them from our California days but did find this one of them when they visited us after we moved back to Indiana.
Kyle returned from California this evening where he spent the weekend visiting the University of Santa Clara where he has been accepted into their business program. He was reunited with two boys, David and Brian, who he played with as a 2-year-old on the very same campus. Jeanine has remained in touch with their mother Julie for all these years. Kyle was treated like royalty and received the grand tour of San Francisco, Santa Cruz, and was reacquainted with the majesty of the giant redwoods.
Jeanine attended a fundraising gala for the Concord Conservatory of Music this evening. I am still suffering with a virus and opted to stay in for the night but did not miss the opportunity to photograph her before she left.
This evening Jeanine and I dined with Maya’s new friend Annabelle and her parents at the Flatbread Co. The grown-up girls enjoyed bottled beer (as in root) while their parents got to know each other. Jeanine talked me into a vegetable-topped pizza featuring beets. My Italian heritage nearly forced me to object on principle. Thankfully, I was persuaded by Jeanine to give it a try and was quite surprised by how yummy the combination was.
We received close to another foot of snow today. This is by far the worst winter since we moved to Concord some 7 years ago. The snow banks at work give some idea of just how much of the white stuff we have had over the past few weeks. The plow drivers are running out of places to pile the snow.
I surprised Jeanine with a bouquet of roses last night in celebration of her first published article. Her New Year’s resolution was to have one of her stories published. Less than a month in, she has received positive word from Exceptional Parent monthly magazine and the Santa Clara Weekly newspaper.
Chinese Chicken Salad – by Jeanine Calabria
Every time I think about Chinese Chicken Salad, I’m brought back to the weeks following my son Nicolai’s birth in July 1994, Santa Clara, CA. If I told you that each tangy, salty mouthful was accompanied by a pang of grief, you might wonder who in their right mind would continue making this dish. Yet this salad wasn’t the source of grief, it was the sustenance that got me through a hard time. As I mix the dressing of sesame oil, soy sauce, rice wine vinegar and sugar, my eyes fill with tears. I think of the women who supported my family during those post-partum days, especially, Julie Gutierrez-Muegge. She wrote the recipe down for me on a Garfield Post-it, while I sat at her kitchen table. She then shared with me what her Mexican grandmother said about childbirth. “Every woman visits the valley of death when giving birth, and some are lucky enough to return to tell about it.” Julie reminded me that I was one of the lucky ones. Chinese Chicken Salad helped me to believe that.
Fifteen years later, my son, Nicolai, just home from soccer, puts in his order for Chinese Chicken Salad. “Mom, tomorrow will you make Chinese Chicken Salad? I’ve been telling the guys about it and they’re coming over tomorrow night just to eat it. I dream about that salad!”
I agree. He can’t possibly know what this request means for me. Yes, it is wonderful that he’s not asking for pizza or pasta for the thousandth time. But what I am referring to is the nostalgic significance this recipe has for me– and indirectly him.
On January 1, 1994 my husband Carl, my 18 month old son, Kyle, and I (barely showing my early pregnancy), boarded an airplane in Indianapolis, IN and flew west to Santa Clara. We were starting a new life on the West Coast, near high tech Silicon Valley and warm weather. My job for the next 6 months was to entertain an active toddler while incubating a baby. I loved the prospects of exploring a new place and immediately joined Las Madres, a unique mother and child support group. Every week, I would race to the back page of the paper to check the playground location and times and plan everything else around the Las Madres gathering. Before I knew it, Kyle and I had instant community. What a way to become familiar with the area! We met in a different park every week, so I now knew of a wide range of play options as well as learning which pediatricians were taking new patients, what days the farmers’ markets came to town, and the real pay dirt of the group: names and numbers of good babysitters.
What I didn’t anticipate was the support this group would become after the birth of my son. Nico was born without his right leg and hip. A huge surprise since the ultra sound didn’t pick up the abnormality. The weeks after his birth were filled with the aftermath of shock, medical visits and the demands of my other son. Every night another meal would arrive from a Las Madres family. The generosity was touching and after two months we were astounded as the meals just kept coming. Lasagna and casseroles were tough to eat since none of us were very hungry, and the July heat was oppressive in our third floor condo. So, each time a Chinese Chicken Salad arrived, I ate it. It was the only dish that really appealed to me. Having a cool salad that felt so nourishing and spring- like, brought me hope. I don’t know if the dish was in vogue or if it was a regional dish, but we just couldn’t seem to get enough of it and every week several arrived. Cilantro, toasted almonds, sesame seed oil, crunchy romaine, roasted chicken with the skin on, the recipe ingredients varied little and were a symphony of flavors.
Nico requests this salad regularly. What I don’t understand is how this dish had such an impact on him. He was a nursing newborn with no experience eating Chinese Chicken Salad and yet he asks for the food that nourished me back from sadness and landed me in my kitchen today, wondering about the mysterious effects some foods have on our psyches and our lives.
(Nicolai Calabria was born at Los Gatos Hospital on July 8, 1994. He now lives in Massachusetts and wrestles and plays soccer for his high school team. In 2008 he climbed Mount Kilimanjaro with his father and raised over $100,000 for the California based Free Wheel Chair Mission.)
Chinese Chicken Salad (serves 6)
Dressing:1 teaspoon. salt ½ teaspoon pepper 4 tablespoons Japanese rice wine vinegar 2 tablespoons sugar ¼ cup canola oil 1 tablespoon toasted sesame oil
Whisk together until sugar is dissolved.
Salad:1 head of Romaine lettuce, torn in bite-sized pieces ½ bunch chopped fresh cilantro 4 green onions, thinly sliced at an angle using ½ of green stalk too ½ cup toasted, sliced almonds 1 whole rotisserie-roasted chicken, sliced in small pieces 15 won ton wrappers, sliced in strips and fried or1 can prepared Chow Mein Noodles
Layer in the order of the above ingredients list. Pour dressing over the top, toss and serve
Please note the outdoor temperature (-3F) indicated in the lower right of the in dash display as I left for work this morning. Ignore the fact that I was driving when I took this photo. Windchill temperatures varied from -20F to -50F. No one is making fun of my Mad Bomber hat today.
Jeanine received word last week that one of her stories has been accepted for publication by Exceptional Parent magazine. The article is both a recipe for Chinese Chicken Salad and the story of Nicolai’s birth. I was called on to provide pictures to accompany the story and had to complete my work quickly as Nico was chomping at the bit to have his dinner.
My company held its holiday Party this evening at the House of Blues. Buses carried us from iRobot headquarters to the downtown venue located across the street from Fenway Park. More than 700 employees and their significant others were treated to passed hors d’oeuvres, fine food, and live music by the band SoHo. I had an opportunity to introduce Jeanine to my colleagues and to meet their spouses although the music was more conducive to dancing than extended conversations. And dance we did, for more than an hour.
We added another licensed driver to the family this afternoon. Nicolai, more so than Kyle, worked to obtain his license as soon as possible after reaching the legal age. Contingent on Nico maintaining good grades, we will make available to him our official car for new drivers, the Smart Car. Within minutes of returning home he concocted a reason to run a solo errand. We are all thrilled for him.
On my drive home from the office, I stopped to pick up chips and soda for Nico who was hosting a poker party for his friends this evening. Kyle had Hannah over and Maya (who is officially under the weather now) had her friend Sarinnagh sleeping over. Jeanine and I are thrilled that our kids and their friends enjoy hanging out chez Calabria and it was nice to come home to such a hotbed of fun after a particularly challenging week in the office.
I enjoy using shallow depth of field (selective focus) in my photography. When I returned from work after a tough day in the office, I was thrilled to find a UPS package with a new (used) lens waiting for me. It is a 50mm f/1.2 which is an exceptional low-light lens and is also known for producing great bokeh (buttery smooth out-of-focus areas). Maya was looking rather moody and we fear she may be getting sick.
Open Table where food is prepared and served to anyone in need of a meal. Jeanine brought her sous chef with her as she created a healthy and delicious meal for 100 guests (including all the shopping for ingredients). Jeanine forwarded this photo she received today of all the volunteers.
Another big snowfall today created difficult driving conditions. Common practice at iRobot is for employees to leave their windshield wipers in the service position when snow is anticipated as evidenced by this photo of our parking lot taken through my office window and the falling snow.
Every couple of years technology advances to the point where a complete conversion from an old technology to the new one is necessary. The device pictured here is a CD/DVD player that can store 400 discs and access any one of them in a matter of seconds. Today I removed my 300 CD music collection from this machine and “ripped” (transferred the digital music content) to the hard drive in my computer. At 5 minutes per CD, it was a time-consuming project but I now have house-wide access to the uncompressed files through the Sonos. The next step is to sell the disc carousel on Craig’s List.
My shop got a proper cleaning this morning as I prepared for the visit of a friend. I had two Roomba’s going at once and they made quick work of the task. The kayak was my last major project and I am getting tempted to start something new.
Nicolai was back in action today competing in a quad meet (three matches) at Arlington High School. In his first match, he won a hard-fought decision which went 6 minutes. In his second match, pictured here, he quickly took down his opponent only to suffer another stinger. If you click on the photo you can see the pain in his face. He took 2 minutes of injury time but was unable to continue. Fortunately, he was able to wrestle again for his third match which he won with a first-period pin. Kyle and I spent a good part of the day getting his truck into shape (jump start after a month left in the cold, new rim to replace the unmatched one, new tire and rotation, and a new battery). Maya was scheduled to get a hair cut but food shopping with her mother ran beyond her appointment.
Jeanine prepared an exceptionally delicious salmon this evening. It is pictured here, straight from the oven. Kyle and Hannah joined us for an adult dinner as Nicolai and Maya were staying with friends.
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