Jeanine joined me for a 5 mile paddle on the Sudbury River after completing a 22 mile bike ride earlier in the day. A more perfect day for kayaking I cannot remember as we enjoyed numerous wildlife sightings and the serenity of being on the water. Meanwhile, Nicolai had a speaking gig in Great Barrington, MA and was joined for the road trip by cousin John. The pair continued on to spend the night at my sister’s house in Slingerlands, NY and will return tomorrow.
My nephew, John Quinn, has settled nicely into his new Product Manager job at Nielson. He continues to live with us and is a great addition to the household. Today he prepared an enormous batch of homemade granola to bring to the office and left a portion at home for the family to enjoy. He prepares exotic dinners every Sunday night which take half the day to prepare only to be consumed in a matter of delicious moments. We chat on topics from technology, entrepreneurship, and management to SUVs and politics.
Flossing is an important part of dental hygiene except when it results in the dislocation of a filling. Such was the case this morning and will require a trip to the dentist for repairs. Note to children: You can avoid all this hassle by taking better care of your teeth as young adults.
Maya was inducted into the National Honor Society during a ceremony this evening at the high school. Inductees must satisfy requirements in the areas of scholarship, leadership, service, and character. Her mother and I were members of the NHS and could not be more proud that she has also been recognized with this distinction.
The hummingbird feeder outside the bay window over our kitchen sink has seen a lot of visitors over the past few days. I decided to try and capture a few this afternoon. It was both cold and windy so I bundled up before taking up a position on the deck with a long telephoto lens. I don’t consider these to be very good photographs and will try again with better lighting and more interesting background.
Nicolai is back for the summer break after completing his sophomore year at Colorado College. He drove straight through from Colorado Springs with his friend Oliver and is seen above unloading (tossing) his gear from the SUV. Nico has been doing very well academically and remains very excited about school and his choice of CC. He looks to have put on a few pounds, much of it muscle, some of it not, since our last visit. The US National Amputee Soccer Team is tentatively scheduled to attend a tournament in Costa Rica this summer so he is going to have to start training again to get back into world class soccer shape.
Even with 4 and a half inch heels on, Maya appears petite compared to her prom date, Chris Ruediger, an excellent student and talented musician (Chris’ website). We hosted a pre-prom party at our house for a large group of Maya’s friends providing an opportunity for everyone to get photographs of the kids before they boarded a bus for the Boston Park Plaza where the event was held. I orchestrated some group shots in the backyard (will post tomorrow) and did indoor and outdoor portraits for many of the couples. Because my photo studio is adjacent to my woodworking shop, some of the kids found objects to use for props. I am particularly fond of the photos below featuring matching hearing protectors. I am still working on a clever caption.
For 11 years now I have been posting a photo and short message every day on this blog. It all started with the photo of Maya above taken when she was 5 years old. According to my website this is the 6,194th post I have made. There have been many days when I struggled to find the inspiration or energy to create an entry. Fortunately, I managed to persevere and am very proud of the journal I have created for the benefit of my family and friends. At some point, when Maya graduates high school perhaps, I imagine I may scale back to weekly postings. I am also starting to look for some software that can convert this blog into a PDF book. When I am long gone and no one is left to maintain this website, I’d like to ensure that there is a permanent record of this photo journal for my kids and theirs.
We could not have been prouder of Maya who was presented three academic awards this evening by the Principal of Concord Carlisle High School. She earned High Honors for Academic Excellence, an Excellence Award for Electrical Engineering, and a Certificate of Merit with Highest Honors from the Society of Women Engineers for three years of excellence in science and mathematics.
I returned to the hospital this morning to find my mother feeling quite well and in good spirits. Her surgeon felt that she had tolerated the procedure well and could be released. We made our escape by early afternoon and joined her sister, Maruja, for a late lunch. My mom will stay with her sister and brother-in-law for at least a week at which time she needs to check in with her doctor again for the all clear. They live just minutes from the hospital on the shore of Little Neck Bay.
My mother was hospitalized on Sunday when she began to experience severe pains in her abdomen while dancing at a studio in Astoria, NY. She was taken by ambulance to St. Francis Hospital on Long Island where tests suggested that she had an infected gallbladder. Her symptoms subsided after being treated with antibiotics but the doctor recommended it would be best to remove the organ. At 87 any surgery is risky but we all agreed that it would be best to have the operation. I left early in the morning for NY so I could ensure that she was being well cared for and provide some measure of comfort. My cousin Edward, a Nassau County police officer, also stopped by and threatened to arrest her if she did not cooperate with hospital staff. The 1 hour laparoscopic surgery was successful and she was resting comfortably when I left the hospital late in the evening. The surgeon said the gallbladder was 8 times the normal size and was “nearly gangrenous”. The decision to have it removed was clearly the right course of action.
I prepared another batch of items for sale on Craig’s List today including a macro lens, subwoofer, and high resolution computer monitor. Photographing black objects can be very challenging. The trick is to emphasize the highlights and I enjoyed discovering the best lighting arrangements to do this. These three items alone will net over a thousand dollars so the work to get good images is well worth the effort.
Maya prepared breakfast in bed for a Mother’s Day treat. The meal included French toast, eggs, sliced apples, and coffee. I managed to score a couple of slices of French toast in the deal. The boys both called to wish Jeanine a happy Mother’s Day and all three kids are off the hook for their recent dismal performance on her birthday.
I called my mother to wish her well and am posting a couple of pictures of us together for her enjoyment. Yes, I once had a lot of hair and yes my mother is and was a beautiful woman, both in appearance and spirit.
I played one of my better soccer games this morning but not well enough to help my squad defeat Belmont. I almost scored on a diving header which would have been a spectacular way to break the 0-0 tie we had to settle for.
In preparation for Maya’s pre-prom party to be held here next weekend, I constructed a massive light panel to aid in full-length couples photography. The panel, measuring 6ft x 4ft, is made of three light troffer fixtures that I salvaged from a remodeling project at work some ten years ago (I knew they would come in handy someday). I refitted the fixtures for LED bulbs and mounted the whole affair on casters.
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